My husband emotionally and financially abuses me. He is all u have said and then some. We have attended counseling, had prayer, and now I am beyond emotionally tired and frustrated. I offer to make a goodbye brunch in the morning and he said it was controlling of me. There was no room for me in our bedroom. Watch for his glory and tell him what you feel, ask Him for help, We have not because we ask not. I had become an object, a means to an end.
Who is he to control what you eat?! I never would have married him. There are legal protections for immigrants who are survivors of abuse that can help you. I have been with my husband for 10 years married 7. I think of him every day.
The Myth of Mutual Abuse - The National Domestic Violence Hotline
You are in danger if you stay Wondering if you have suggestions on how to handle this. He never once raised his voice to his family but was mean to us. Some days he can be the sweetest and most loving then others he'll go out of his way to put me down. My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. He used them to hurt me, to undermine me and to make me doubt and dislike myself.
That happened a couple of times. I also pray that he will hit me so that people will validate my feelings for leaving, but as of yet he's only pushed me, thrown things, and broken things. One good resource is bullyonline. Not worth the whinging and whining and bitching. There was one particular evening and he was yet again fighting with me.